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Post by aleamon98 on Jul 25, 2007 22:27:10 GMT -5
I happen to be good friends with SP. I'm not afraid to say it. I don't know if he did it or not. I happen to know that all of the domestic violence reports were BS. Both were arguments where one of them called 911 and then told the police "no problem" once they arrived. Sorry to rain on your parade, but that's the way it happened.
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marykirby
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Post by marykirby on Jul 25, 2007 23:04:26 GMT -5
rain on our parade?thats weird choice of words, not that everyone is guilty , but it simply is speaking for itself ,and now look at what the bond was for BC how stupid that is , someone must be payin a whole helluva lot of money "under" the table here. hell meth makers get worse bonds set that BC and look what he has done ,
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Post by aleamon98 on Jul 26, 2007 11:17:14 GMT -5
Sadly, gmoney that's the way it happens in most DV cases. The women call 911 b/c they are afraid but when the police get there they say everything is ok because they are even more afraid to make the husband even madder. They are hoping the police will just calm things down or perhaps see thrugh the lie and take it upon himself to do something. There was a case in Atlanta just this week where LE was called to a home by a woman who hung up when they answered. They arrived at the scene and both hubby and wife said everything is fine. Thirty mins later, they get another hangup where the husband had grabbed the phone from her. They get there and the husband says it's all fine and the wife agrees from behind the door. They park across the street to do their paperwork and hear the woman screaming so they go back to the house where the husband refuses to let them in. They force their way in and find the woman on the floor bleeding and with visible injuries..........
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Post by gmoney on Jul 26, 2007 18:19:43 GMT -5
I'm not sure that I agree with you that Meth cooks should get lower bonds than idiots who lie during an investigation. I thought it was a fair bond. The bond is only to ensure he shows up for court, not punish him. Meth cooks endanger their neighborhood with the chemicals and explosion risk, and feed their poison to people who then destroy their families.
I hope sam didn't do it, but if he did, he'll get his just desserts.
And to say that that is the way it happens in most DV cases, oh well. Innocent until proven guilty. You can't have it where the police arrive, see a black eye, and the woman says she fell. The police then arrest the man of the house. That would be outlandish.
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Post by familyfinder on Jul 26, 2007 18:43:36 GMT -5
WAS YOU THERE OR ARE YOU GOING BY WHAT SAM TOLD YOU?
MOST WIFE BEATERS DON'T BRAG ABOUT IT ESPECIALLY TO THEIR FRIENDS. MOST PEOPLE THINK WIFE BEATERS ARE THE SCUM OF THE EARTH, LOWER THAN A SNAKES BELLY. (THEY ARE!!!!!!!!!!) TP COULD HAVE BEEN AFRAID TO TELL THE TRUTH ABOUT HIM HURTING HER. ALSO THERE ARE MORE WAYS THAN ONE TO HURT A PERSON. SOMETIMES WORDS HURT WORSE THAN SOME OF THE LICKS.
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Post by gmoney on Jul 26, 2007 18:50:01 GMT -5
So sorry if I upset you familyfinder. I am just basing that on what we know. Should I base my opinions on what we don't know? Should I assume, everytime there is a call to 911, that someone is beating his wife? Maybe we should pass a law that says everytime a woman calls 911, the husband goes to jail regardless of what anyone says or does. Maybe, just maybe, we could make that law a little more reasonable to say that if a woman calls 911 but then claims they were only arguing, that the police leave, but if later a blogger doesn't like the outcome, the police take a warrant on the man and the courts allow the blogger to come yell at the jury that they should either convict him or be known throughout the community as wife-beater supporters.
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Post by marykirby on Jul 26, 2007 20:20:49 GMT -5
i was using meth as a example ,u seen to kno SP or BC so how about asking them where TP is? if they r such wonderful truth telling ppl they should tell u or somebody ,, now why would anyone mess with someone computer emails if not tryin to be nosey for someone else? im sure BC didnt want to know what was in her emails and on his computer for his self!just seems like the family of TP is gettin railroaded more and more everyday ,and ppl like u r to blame !
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Post by gmoney on Jul 26, 2007 20:48:26 GMT -5
such attacks on me. I said I didn't know if SP did it or not and that if he did he would get his just desserts. yet you ignore that and blame me for the pain that TP's family is going through. Sounds like you are looking for someone to take your anger and frustration out on. Kind of like you claim SP did, huh.
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Post by familyfinder on Jul 26, 2007 20:52:08 GMT -5
HAVE YOU TALKED TO HER AND HER FAMILY ABOUT THE 911 CALLS? IT WOULD SEEM TO ME THAT SHE WOULDN'T WANT TO CALL ATTENTION TO HERSELF WITH THE JOB THAT SHE HAD. SHE MUST HAVE FELT LIKE SHE NEEDED HELP IN THE WORST WAY WHEN SHE CALLED. SHE WAS JUST PLAIN OLD SCARED. IF YOU ARE SO BUDDY, BUDDY WITH HIM WHY DOESN'T HE TELL YOU WHERE SHE IS? I WOULD BE AFRAID TO BE SO CLOSE TO HIM IF I WAS YOU IF YOU ARE A FEMALE. HE WILL BLAME THIS WHOLE THING ON YOU. HE CAN FIND A WAY. IF TP IS IN MEXICO LIKE HE SAYS, WHY DOESN'T HE WANT TO CLEAR HIS NAME? HAS HE ALWAYS NEEDED SO MUCH ATTENTION? HE KNOWS ALMOST EVERYBODY IN THE LAF AREA KNOWS ALL ABOUT HIM AND WHAT HE LOOKS LIKE. DOES HE LIKE FOR PEOPLE TO WHISPER ABOUT HIM BEHIND HIS BACK WHEN HE GOES OUT? HE COULD STOP IT. I HAVEN'T HEARD ANYBODY SAY THEY FELT SORRY FOR HIM. HIS WORLD IS JUST HIM. SORRY BUT THAT IS HOW I FEEL. IF HE WOULD JUST BE A MAN AND TELL WHAT HE KNOWS IT WOULD HELP. I GUESS I HAD BETTER GET OFF MY SOAP BOX FOR NOW. YOU JUST BE CAREFUL.
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Post by gmoney on Jul 26, 2007 20:59:20 GMT -5
I haven't had contact with him in months. I'm very suspicious that he is involved, but every time I look on here, everyone is talking about the violence between them. TP never reported that he harmed her or threatened to harm her. Sure, you can say that she was scared. But we really don't know that. Have you reported that your husband beat you today? if not, is it because it didn't happen or because you're scared to talk. you're saying that she didn't say anything because she was scared, but that you didn't say anything because nothing has happened. Surely you can understand that the simple fact that a woman is silent does not mean she has been abused. You are basically saying that all women are either in denial of their abuse or are reporting their abuse, there are no unabused women.
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Post by billcannon791 on Jul 26, 2007 21:13:00 GMT -5
Just a quick note, the family knows b/c she did tell them, and this can be backed uped, and if you have kept up with this story you will see that there has been reports filed with LE, it don't matter if it was in state or out of state, it's still the same it has been reported. Now lets not fight over petty things there are more important matters here to talk about, like where, who, how, why, and when. God Bless
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Post by gmoney on Jul 26, 2007 21:26:02 GMT -5
Excellent try to end the conversation with dishonesty. there were no reports of violence against her. he fired a weapon out of a window and then threatened to kill himself. TP stated herself that he never threatened her in the out of state incident you are referring to. This is not a trial, there is no need to bend the truth. Remember, I'm suspicious he did it, but I feel the need to speak out when you all tell lies. You're not speculating that there was violence, you're saying that there was and it occurred in florida. And the record's clear, there wasn't, which means you are either wrong in your knowledge OR you are on a disinformation campaign. Either way, I will continue to point you out.
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Post by billcannon791 on Jul 26, 2007 21:36:54 GMT -5
Bend the truth no, but this is how the LE would see it, I don't clam him guilty or not guilty I see him as inocent untill proving guilty, so before you start in on me I go by news reports ( and we know how things can get there) but also by my ties with the family and yes this means sam too since he and Theresa lived next too her brother and me, and I have knowen this family for a long time now, so you can "POINT ME OUT" don't matter I will still go by what I am told by the family. As I have stated before I am here for the finding of my dear friend Theresa.
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Post by aleamon98 on Jul 26, 2007 21:56:37 GMT -5
such attacks on me. I said I didn't know if SP did it or not and that if he did he would get his just desserts. yet you ignore that and blame me for the pain that TP's family is going through. Sounds like you are looking for someone to take your anger and frustration out on. Kind of like you claim SP did, huh. Attacks on you? I am not seeing attacks on you. I am seeing people that are familiar with what went on, stating their opinions about what happened just as you have. I have not seen one person attack you so please don't accuse someone of doing that. As far as DV goes, if it didn't happen it didn't but why would her family say it? To me they seem like good christian people that would have no reason to lie about what they know. DV can occur mentally and/or physical but both have the same demeaning affects on a person. As for Mary, FF, and Bill - they have a right to their opinions just like you do. Whether it be yes or no or something you agree on or not, you should have been ready for this type of response when you posted. Don't get me wrong, everyone is welcome to post here but when you post you have to be ready for everyone else to state how they feel and their views.
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Post by gmoney on Jul 26, 2007 22:05:17 GMT -5
just seems like the family of TP is gettin railroaded more and more everyday ,and ppl like u r to blame !
That is a copy and paste, nothing changed. If I claimed that YOU are to blame for TP's family's getting railroaded, would YOU take it as an attack. I think we all know the answer, but I would still love to hear you say that you would take it as a compliment.
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